I’ve done it again – messed around and not bought all the Valentines I wanted to send to friends and relatives across the country. Maybe if I get them all ready tomorrow (Sunday) and into the post office on Monday they will still be delivered on time (Thursday). You think?
Sending Valentines is my way of making up for the fact that I didn’t do a very good job of getting the Christmas cards out last year. Except for that rare individual (sweetheart, spouse, mother) most people look at greeting cards, say “isn’t that nice?” and throw them in the wastebasket. In this case, it really is just the thought that counts and a card that costs $1 can be just as meaningful as one that costs $5 or more. For the kids, I have always gone to Hallmark and headed right for the 99 cent section. My favorite neighborhood Hallmark store closed, but the CVS is even closer and has a huge card section – as does Von’s. This year I found an even better deal. I was shopping at the Dollar Tree for party stuff – paper plates, cups and napkins. A nice lady was stocking the greeting cards so I stopped to browse and chat. The cards at Dollar Tree are two for a dollar. What a find! I’ll still need to visit CVS tomorrow to complete my list, but I got some great cards for the kids, one for our Mom and a card that is perfect for my husband. It has possibly the most perfect sentiment inside and I’ll leave it out for him to “discover” on Thursday morning.
Another place that has a small but interesting selection of greeting cards (not Valentines, unfortunately) is Trader Joe’s. They are displayed at the check-out counters and while I’m standing there waiting for the checker to finish totaling my stuff (I always buy way more than I planned) I browse. I’m probably one of the few people who bought and actually use one of the card organizers Hallmark used to sell. I keep a supply of birthday, sympathy, congratulations, and “thinking of you” cards, and I never pay more than a dollar for any of them. When I need stamps, I get some that are pretty and/or funny and that adds to the overall impression that I really did “care enough to send the very best”. A stamp is a stamp – they all cost the same. Might as well get something fun! The USPS has Happy Birthday stamps, but I learned my lesson about stocking up. I’m always left with a few that require supplementing when the rates go up. Having one-cent stamps running across the envelope somehow destroys the intent. Now I just get five at a time.
Okay, so despite your best intentions tomorrow is someone’s birthday and you forgot to send a card. So it’s “e-cards” or nothing. (You could just call, you know!) The loveliest online cards can be found at www.jacquielawson.com. An annual subscription is less than $10 and your recipients will be suitably impressed. Hallmark and American Greetings have free e-cards as well as “premium” ones you have to pay for. If you send a lot of cards for business as well as personal reasons, check out www.sendoutcards.com. People love to get cards – either online or the old fashioned kind. For very little or no money, you can make a big impression for a special occasion or just for no reason at all!